Hmm…..that's actually not an easy question to answer.
Let's see....I'm very direct; I don't sugar-coat things, I tell you like it is whether you like it or not, because I know that making it sound better will only make it worse for you in the process.
Apparently everybody I know comes to me with their problems, issues, stresses, etc, because I'm really good at listening and giving the right kind of advice.
I'm very good at arguing/debating. In the words of my mother, I could argue with a wooden fence. And probably win.
I am kind a caring, though shy around new people. I'm nice to everyone, and can be the right old mother-hen in other words. Though if I don't agree with or like what a person is saying I can get...fierce. I stand up in what I believe in, and am rather good at voicing my opinions.
I am very unbiased and non-judgemental; I can see both sides of the picture and make my own assessment, choosing not to side with someone until I know the whole story. I get along with everyone, and hang out with a variety of different people. Color, race, gender, disablity or no, as long as you have a good personality, I will hang out with you. Looks do not matter, it's what's on the inside that counts. If you saw my group of friends, you'd understand perfectly.
I laugh and joke a lot. It makes me feel good to be able to make another person laugh and smile, especially if they're having a bad day. And yes I can be rather loud and obnoxious, I'll admit that. But usually that's only when I'm around my friends, or trying to embarass my family in public They do it to me too so don't get any ideas...
Unfortunately I stress about the little things. I put myself last when I should be concerned about myself first. I can hold grudges, if there's a good reason behind it, and sometimes I'm very insecure. I compare myself to others, though I'm getting better about that. When I hit rock bottom, and I have several times, I always manage to pull myself out of it. Which is pretty remarkable if I may say so myself.
I love food, but it doesn't love me back. We have this love/hate relationship going on.
I can be flirty with both genders, but don't worry; I'm as straight as an arrow.
I love to read and write. I can sit and read a book from the time I wake up, to the time I finish it. Depending on the book, it usually takes me less than a day to get one done. Writing, comes to me in spurts, when my muse isn't on vacation.
I'm also very outdoorsy; I love nature and hate living in the city with a passion. I'm a country girl, born and bred; cities make me feel claustrophobic.
Oh yes, my family and friends are everything to me. I'd do anything to hhelp them, and if someone were to threaten them, especially my family, things would not bode well for that person. My mother is my best friend, and the rest of us are all really close.
Sooo....I think that's pretty much me in a nutshell... I honestly couldn't tell you what creature I'd be Maybe a shrew or a hare. What do you guys think?